10 Old Fashioned Dating Habits We Should Make Cool Again
- 1. Coming to the door to pick someone up.
- 2. Trying to dress really nicely for a date.
- 3. Bringing flowers or other tokens of affection to the first date.
- 4. Going dancing that’s not grinding on a grimy club floor.
- 5. Straightforwardly asking someone out and not calling it “hanging out.”
- 6. Additionally, being clear about when you’re “going steady.”
- 7. Romantic gestures like writing poems.
- 8. Turning electronics off and just being with one another.
- 9. The general concept of asking permission for things.
- 10. Not assuming sex is to be had at any point in time.
- by Kate Bailey
It’s 11:01. I don’t know honestly why I post some days. Today just seems bland and I don’t know. Hints of you are in my head or among the people I see most days and I still have you at the back of my mind. The pain almost lingers but most of it is slowly healing. In such short amount of time, I don’t know, maybe I am good on my own. Maybe there is a reason for all this. I don’t know. I’m assuming and hoping for things to happen again.. Well just to let you know, my room has changed and I have barely anything that reminds me of you.. Except for the Pooh bears scattered in my room. Some stayed where they have always been and others have been moved. I don’t know. Should there be a reason to give them back? Should there be reassurance of where I am with you? I honestly want to know where we stand. Do you want me out of your life? A promise is a promise and I don’t plan on breaking it but since I haven’t heard from you.. I don’t know what to do.
It’s 10:39 at the moment and my thoughts are blank. But I do recall that I had a dream about you last night.. It was soo weird and seemed so realistic. I couldn’t believe i saw you and I actually held you, how I used to hold you.. I don’t remember as much but the only thing I do remember is that you have me that one last chance that I’ve wished for. At one point you were crying but I forgot. Pretty much it’s a blurr to me now. Just overall, I don’t know why I still have dreams about you. They are soo unexpected to a point where I don’t know what my mind thinks at some points. I guess the only thing to do to get a hold of you is through my imagination. That’s what is left of you. Imagining things that will never happen present day. I just wish that you are okay. I still haven’t heard from you. I still haven’t made any contact with you.. But when that day comes again, we will see how it will turn out.. I love you. Be careful. Good night and sleep tight.
It’s 12:27. My days seem to become more at ease with the thoughts slowly slipping away. I still keep the thought of you there but just wanting to know what you are doing and how you are slowly does not come into caring as much. I still miss talking to you. Just making a conversation is really what I would want and need from you. That’s all. You’re really doing your own thing though. Whatever happened to our promises.. Promises shouldn’t be named promises. They mean soo much more than how people normally treat it nowadays. I still keep a few promises. I hope you do as well. I really don’t have anything else to say but just to always let you know to be careful and don’t do stupid things. You’re a punk but I still love you. Good night. Sleep tight and be safe.
It’s 12:30 at the moment and I seem to realize more when the night grows. I don’t know why but I have this feeling that you’re not doing well in other people’s perspective. I don’t know how you are, what you’re doing with your life but I hope you know what you’re doing. Being happy is a good thing but being happy about doing the wrong things and taking the wrong path is whole different story. Being happy but starting bad habits should not be the case for you. I really wish I could talk to you but I know you won’t ever listen to me again. Or hear from me. I just hope and pray that you’re safe. I always do. But just please, I want to know if you’re doing okay. Don’t be stupid, you’re better than that okay? Anyways, I know I might be assuming things but still, what I hear from others does not sound good overall. Just think before you do. Just like you told me. Take care honey. Good night.